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stop stealing glances

i was faced with a challenge sometime ago i spoke about it to my friends they couldn't help i prayed about it, God spoke to me but i ignored it cause it wasn't what i wanted at the moment i thought deeply about the situation, thoughts only drained my energy it was strange, i couldn't just understand why i was not able to deal with it everything felt wrong  i picked up my pen and my journal and asked God to speak to me again about the situation and He took me to  Mathew 14:29-30  verse 30 says when peter SAW the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, cried out, lord, save me.   so many times we are praying to God for help, but our eyes are somewhere else, we are saying Lord bring me out of it, but we are stealing glances at it, you are saying father i dont wanna be hear anymore, but every single time you think, look, speak, its about that place   where your focus is, your heart magnifies, you cant magnify things without focus God w...

Access to change

lets stop blaming Adam and Eve for their actions,  every havoc they caused, Jesus fixed. Jesus reversed every curse,  He reunited us with God.  Every curse has become a Blessing  We have access to all the trees in the garden Trees in the bible signify greatness you can eat of the tree of success, joy, peace abundance, authority, LOVE The tree of Life which is greater than all trees is made accessible The tree of life signify living God's way of life  It is for free of charge. you don't need to pay for it  Jesus paid for it already living God's way of life is not just accessible to Men of God It is made available for you too  victory is made available for you  Joy is made available  Peace is made available for you  Right living is made available   So many times i hear people say i am a man or woman under God's construction that is nepios statement. you are not ready for change because it does ...

war against the mind

HI..... there is only one you, you don't have the same potential as your friend, sister, brother, role model... there is only one of you in the world, you have to find your own way, the beauty of your uniqueness is doing what has never been done, why is someone else dictating your life and thoughts? why are you letting the media encourage you to be who you are not? why are you doing what every other person is doing? why are you so captivated with living other people's dreams and visions? why are you afraid to live your own life,? why do you think doing it your own way is not the best? why do you think the world do not need your idea? why are you  struggling to be who people expect you to be? why do you let people around you hold you back? why are you waiting to be perfect before becoming something in life? why are you waiting for convenience, opportunities to move you? why do you let excuses bound you? excuses get you zero percent closer to your goals. its cool to be a dreamer ...

WHY CAN'T I KEEP TO MY NEW YEAR DECISIONS?

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HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE  Here is another year of making new resolutions  A time we write down all the things  we wish to do,  A time we wish to make new friends and exit old ones A time we promise ourselves to be more serious  I personally can't do without making new resolutions, i do this because i love targeting my life, i do it more frequent than once in a year, but i do it at the beginning of every year because its NEW, new decisions, new date, new everything. Its a personal culture and mindset though. I write down all the habits i wish to stop in my new journal for that year, how to stop those bad habits and maybe good habits to replace. Before, i learnt how to do it the right way, i would write down everything in my journal on 31st night and i would keep to this for at least 1 month and everything goes back to normal.      Make sure you continue reading, because i will eventually say why it happens this way. but before i go into that...

The blame game

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It's always easy to blame someone else or outside force for our actions. we hear people tell us all the time "my father never said nice words to me". "my uncle abused me". "i grew up in an unpleasantly rough environment". "people always talk me down". "nobody encouraged me". "nobody cares about me". "i trusted X and X hurt me".   This situations are of course very sad, and its terrible to have to go through all this in live, but its not an excuse to remain in bondage neither is it enough reason to blame people for our behavior. Do you realize that whatever situation  they put you in is not their set back neither does it stop them from being greater? stop complaining and telling everyone how they made you stagnant or how they made you approach life negatively, it never helps.                                                         ...

put off the old : put on the new

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HI HI...please leave a comment when you are done reading...and pleaase ask questions if you have.. thank you  Ephesians 4:22-24 put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires, to be made new in the ATTITUDE of the MINDS, and to put on the new self, created to be like GOD in true righteuosness and holiness.      Recently, i had a fight with one of my close friends, she didnt apologise neither did i apologise to her, we would actually see ourselves in school and  walk pass, we would be with other friends and not talk to each other, that went on for quite sometime, a friend even approached me to talk about the whole drama: friend: this is gettting too long, i think you guys should have a talk maria: na its okay, i feel peace, i really dont want a talk friend: okay maria: the truth is that i actually made a DECISION to be on my own, because we dont get along, we always fight and argue, and it drains my energy and all so lets remai...

fleeting "love"

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first of all, love has nothing to do with emotions  love is a choice love is the response to understanding the value of a thing love is a law and law has no feelings lov e is a force generated by decisions love has no reas on   I actually didnt plan to write today, i was just discussing with myself and my journal, i found it really interesting so i decided to share. the question that actually led to the whole discussion was        "why is it so difficult to love everybody?"  The truth is that some people could be soo difficult and some other people do not accept love. Apart from this two reasons which we always tag on our minds. the general answer to this question is most of us dont love ourselves.     Before we can ever think of l oving people, we have to think of loving ourselves first. when it comes to LOVE it is YOU  first before anybody. This statement sounds selfish right? but calm down cause it has noth...