Royal Surety

HI..... there is only one you, you don't have the same potential as your friend, sister, brother, role model... there is only one of you in the world, you have to find your own way, the beauty of your uniqueness is doing what has never been done, why is someone else dictating your life and thoughts? why are you letting the media encourage you to be who you are not? why are you doing what every other person is doing? why are you so captivated with living other people's dreams and visions? why are you afraid to live your own life,? why do you think doing it your own way is not the best? why do you think the world do not need your idea? why are you  struggling to be who people expect you to be? why do you let people around you hold you back? why are you waiting to be perfect before becoming something in life? why are you waiting for convenience, opportunities to move you? why do you let excuses bound you? excuses get you zero percent closer to your goals. its cool to be a dreamer ...

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE  Here is another year of making new resolutions  A time we write down all the things  we wish to do,  A time we wish to make new friends and exit old ones A time we promise ourselves to be more serious  I personally can't do without making new resolutions, i do this because i love targeting my life, i do it more frequent than once in a year, but i do it at the beginning of every year because its NEW, new decisions, new date, new everything. Its a personal culture and mindset though. I write down all the habits i wish to stop in my new journal for that year, how to stop those bad habits and maybe good habits to replace. Before, i learnt how to do it the right way, i would write down everything in my journal on 31st night and i would keep to this for at least 1 month and everything goes back to normal.      Make sure you continue reading, because i will eventually say why it happens this way. but before i go into that...

It's always easy to blame someone else or outside force for our actions. we hear people tell us all the time "my father never said nice words to me". "my uncle abused me". "i grew up in an unpleasantly rough environment". "people always talk me down". "nobody encouraged me". "nobody cares about me". "i trusted X and X hurt me".   This situations are of course very sad, and its terrible to have to go through all this in live, but its not an excuse to remain in bondage neither is it enough reason to blame people for our behavior. Do you realize that whatever situation  they put you in is not their set back neither does it stop them from being greater? stop complaining and telling everyone how they made you stagnant or how they made you approach life negatively, it never helps.                                                         ...

HI HI...please leave a comment when you are done reading...and pleaase ask questions if you have.. thank you  Ephesians 4:22-24 put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires, to be made new in the ATTITUDE of the MINDS, and to put on the new self, created to be like GOD in true righteuosness and holiness.      Recently, i had a fight with one of my close friends, she didnt apologise neither did i apologise to her, we would actually see ourselves in school and  walk pass, we would be with other friends and not talk to each other, that went on for quite sometime, a friend even approached me to talk about the whole drama: friend: this is gettting too long, i think you guys should have a talk maria: na its okay, i feel peace, i really dont want a talk friend: okay maria: the truth is that i actually made a DECISION to be on my own, because we dont get along, we always fight and argue, and it drains my energy and all so lets remai...

first of all, love has nothing to do with emotions  love is a choice love is the response to understanding the value of a thing love is a law and law has no feelings lov e is a force generated by decisions love has no reas on   I actually didnt plan to write today, i was just discussing with myself and my journal, i found it really interesting so i decided to share. the question that actually led to the whole discussion was        "why is it so difficult to love everybody?"  The truth is that some people could be soo difficult and some other people do not accept love. Apart from this two reasons which we always tag on our minds. the general answer to this question is most of us dont love ourselves.     Before we can ever think of l oving people, we have to think of loving ourselves first. when it comes to LOVE it is YOU  first before anybody. This statement sounds selfish right? but calm down cause it has noth...

        okay this has a whole lot to do with my past, i was encouraged to share it because i feel it is something so many people are going through. i met this dude like some years back, we became friends, really close friends at that, i enjoyed every bit of his atten ti on, he seemed very perfect and fitted my personality accurately, i didn't enjoy being with anyone else like i enjoyed being with him, every single day of my life was about him bla bla bla and bla of such.. along the way we parted ways and the feeling of loneliness grasped me. it was not a situation of me not having other friends, it  was more like amidst other people i was lonely, it was an inner feeling, inside of me i knew i wanted something more than what was available, i needed something more than people around, more than my phone, more than 24hours internet, more than encouraging words, more than inspirational books, more than long speeches, morethan theories and believes.. I NEEDED SOMET...

beauty is outward and inward beauty is flesh and spirit  beauty comes from your inner chasis  beauty is truth's smile when she beholds her own face in a perfect mirror beauty is a light in the heart beauty is endless  beauty is physical      in our beauty obsessed culture, every time we open a magazine, turn on tv, search internet, watch movies, we see how far our personal reality is from the standard perpetuated by the media because of this we are dissatisfied with who we are, full of jealousy, envy, competition nobody can win, endless chase. i personally longed and hungered for beauty and i began to tell GOD "LORD I WANNA BE REAL BEAUTIFUL''. Telling God i wanted to be real beautiful was one of the best step i ever took because He opened my eyes to realities that brought light into my heart, peace into my mind,  and introduced smile in my soul. I say REALITY because it was beyond knowledge, it was beyond understanding, it was beyond ...